Being Present vs Mindfulness

Being Present vs Mindfulness

Physically, you’re at work in a meeting. But mentally, you’re on next summer’s vacation you’ve been planning, on the water with a cold drink in hand. Ah, much better, right? Two phrases thrown around frequently in the Emotional Intelligence and Wellness industry are “mindfulness” and “being present”. While being “mentally elsewhere” is all too relatable, both mindfulness and the skill of being present have a strong foothold in our personal and professional development. And, both are a scaffold for which numerous other soft skills will inevitably improve! These two skills/phrases have become quite trendy, and often used interchangeably. But, while they are similar at face value, there are profound differences between being present, and being mindful.

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Clarity in the Foundation of Communication: Awareness
Communication, Awareness Cathy Wolfenden Communication, Awareness Cathy Wolfenden

Clarity in the Foundation of Communication: Awareness

If ever there was a “king pin” in Emotional Intelligence (EI), it would have to be awareness. All aspects of EI fall into two general categories: Personal and Social Competence. None of us can navigate either category successfully if we are not aware of ourselves and accurately aware of other’s emotional make-up. This awareness becomes the cornerstone in the foundation of clear communication, which anchors us in both personal and social competencies. Ironically, research has shown that upwards of 95% of people think they…

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